Amity
Amity - Coparenting Communication
One place for two homes: clear messages with a dated record of what was said and agreed, and a shared calendar and custody schedule so everyone knows what is happening and when.
Messages that stay clear
Talk about the children in a space made for it. Every message is dated and shows who sent it. See when your message was read, request an acknowledgement when something needs a clear yes, and react with an emoji instead of writing a reply. Share photos and video in the same thread.
A shared calendar you can both trust
Most families who get along still lose time to "wait, whose weekend is it?" Amity keeps the custody schedule, pick-ups, holidays, rotations and swap requests in one calendar that both parents see the same way.
- One schedule. Repeating rotations and one-off events live together, and each day shows whose it is.
- Swaps with a clear answer. Ask for a change, the other parent accepts or declines, and the calendar updates.
- Holidays handled. Set holidays once instead of renegotiating every year.
- No more guessing. Both parents see the same dates, the same changes and who agreed to them.
A record when things are harder
When communication is strained, it helps to keep things factual and in one place. Amity keeps messages, schedule changes and shared notes together, each with the date and who added it, so there is less to argue about and less to remember.
For every kind of coparenting
If you get along
You may barely need messaging. You still want one calendar you both trust: who has the children, when, and what changed. Use the calendar and ignore the rest.
If it is tense
Keep every message and swap in one dated place, so conversations stay on the facts and nothing depends on anyone's memory.
You can use as much or as little of Amity as suits your family.
Everything else in one place
An activity feed, and the people in your family circle: parents, children, friends and professionals, each with their own role. Smaller tools: notes, and shared information for school, health and routines. See all features.
Both parents, one space
Each parent has their own account, and you both see the same calendar and messages. What children, friends and professionals in your family circle can see and do depends on their role.